Fourteen year olds dating
Rather than make a big deal to seperate them I would just make sure (as any responsible parent should) that she was educated and aware of the "birdsnbees".Couldn't say without knowing something about the personality and moral sensibility of the boy. What i want to know are the reasons behind your Answer. Since acceptable that if one person is older, if by the time the older one is done highschool the younger one is of age of consent then there is no real issue with the age difference. *Ignore theory* Yes, I see no reason not to treat him like any other boy who would date my daughter. He is still in school as well (or at least school age) By the time he is out of highschool she will be 16 and that is age of consent.
It was like being 18 and dating a 25 year old who has finished college. I don't see what good is going to come out of letting a 14 year old date anyone, much less a 17 year old.
I have been in this situation when I was 18, my gf at the time was 13. (age of consent in Canada at the time was 14) Her daughter was in grade 10, self schooling at home on correspondence, and worked full time.
On more than a few occaisions law enforcement became aware we were a couple and said and did nothing.
She trusted me enough that she had me move in with them.
She saw her daughter as an adult and really she was.